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Black Goddess Feminine Power New Year’s Retreat
Puerto Morelos, Mexico | Dec 30, 2021 - Jan 2, 2022

Dear Black Goddess,

Are you ready...

...for time and space to unplug, decompress, and reconnect with yourself? have a unique New Year’s experience so you can make peace with 2021 and powerfully welcome 2022 with more pleasure and flow? learn advanced tools that will help decrease chronic stress and recover from daily stressors? understand why sensual, sexual vitality is essential to live an enriched life? let go of the brutal strong Black woman cycle and embrace new ways to express your soft, gentle feminine nature so you can enjoy life more?

On this retreat, you’ll open up to what it means to express more femininity so you can claim your pleasure, your power, and your exquisite softness. Emerge refreshed, renewed & resilient. 




It’s time to let go of the push, grind, hustle and sloooowww down. Imagine having a sacred retreat space for you to soften, catch your breath, and let go. Begin your day with a sunrise walk along the beach as you reflect on what you want to release from 2021 and create for 2022. 


Your sunrise walk is followed by a deliciously fresh and healthy breakfast prepared by our private chef. You are joined by a sister circle of women who are also ready to embody their feminine power. We’ll be sharing, laughing, and being real with each other. 


Your relaxing morning flows into a powerful and moving Black Goddess workshop full of AHAs, revelations, and everything you wish you knew decades ago.  You’ll have the precious time to reconnect with what you really really want. And be given secrets on how to finally manifest them. 


No jam-packed workshops from sunrise to sunset. We’ll give you plenty of intentional reflection time to really decompress and relax. Sit on the beach, take a nap, go for a long walk, or meet some new friends. Whatever your heart desires. No cell phones, no distractions, no work, nobody, and no one bothering and pullin’ on you, so no need to multitask. This is your opportunity to completely unplug and disconnect from it all… if you choose to!


In the evening, retire to your cute private apartment to rest or do whatever you want (no explanations or excuses needed :-)). Accommodations are singles only in your own one-bedroom apartment only two blocks from the beach. Yaaas!


That’s how we’ll be spending our days together until our magical New Year’s Eve    celebration. This will be a New Year’s experience that you never had but always wanted. 


Sis, it’s been a hard couple of years (COVID, natural disasters, protests). So you know THIS IS THE YEAR to ask yourself the hard questions and confront those things you’ve been avoiding. Let this retreat experience help you get the awareness and courage to release what no longer serves you. Together, we’ll create the space and teach you practical tools to help you confront the hard stuff with love, compassion, and acceptance. 


It’s time to be FREE! It’s time to HEAL!

"I just wanted to thank you both again for an amazing weekend. I learned so much and met some really great women. I appreciate you both and the time to you took to share this information with us; it’s invaluable." -Malika (2021)



When was the last time you felt pleasure all over your body from head to toe? Are you wondering, “what does that even mean?” It’s okay, because most of us haven’t mastered our pleasure in that way.    

The world needs more Black women in their pleasure so we can stop surviving and start thriving. But, instead, everyday stressors get in the way and you get pushed into the destructive strong Black woman cycle. When you’re in the cycle of overgiving and overdoing it’s easy to overlook or deny the impact of chronic stress. You know stress from things like relationship & work drama, body pain and discomfort, sleepless nights and restlessness...all the things that scream “I’m stressed the f*ck out!” Or maybe life feels dull, boring and uninspiring as you go through the motions, asking “is this all there is ???”


It’s time to lay down the burdens of the heavy sword and armour and, instead, surround yourself with what makes you happier, more playful, light and free. During this retreat, you’ll learn proven and practical tools so you can release chronic stress and break the strong Black woman cycle. You’ll gain a new toolkit of practices that are easy to implement. These tools will deepen your pleasure practice and support you in embracing new ways to express your soft, gentle feminine nature. You’ll also practice sacred, ancient movement exercises that release stress, connect with your forgotten pleasure centers and bring you to a sense of peace and calm.


Throughout the retreat, and especially on New Year’s, we’ll  take advantage of being near the beach so you can ground and reconnect with nature. We’ll walk you through the Black Goddess Year End Release Method. A powerful process that will help you bring healthy closure to 2021 and invite more pleasure, flow and fun into 2022. 


All of this will allow you to tap into your Black Goddess essence. You’ll soothe your spirit, nurture your heart, and ignite your freedom.

“5 star retreat. Loved their teaching style. Overall relaxing/calming experience.” Annette (2021)



It’s day 4 - January 2, 2022. You’ve taken the time. You’ve been radically honest with yourself. You have the tools, the clarity, plus the courage to confidently step into your feminine power and tap into your deepest desires. You understand exactly why sexual feminine vitality enriches all areas of your life.  And you’re committed to stopping the struggle and allowing things to flow to you easily and effortlessly.


You’re ready to reclaim pleasure as your birthright. Not just in words or as a cute meme, but for real.  

When deeply connected to pleasure in daily life you feel clear about your desires, relaxed in your body, more loving, more creative and unwavering in your worth. So it’s easier...

..To unapologetically prioritize yourself. 

...To ask for what you want (no more pleasing people!)

...To claim your deepest desires. Even the ones that scare the sh*t out of you (or especially those). 


You’re ready to regularly and consistently live in your pleasure and you now know what exactly that looks like for you. It may look different than what you thought it should look like or different than how others do it, but that’s okay. It’s your way, your life, your pleasure, your satisfaction, your desire.


You’ve awakened the Black Goddess within you. 

Now you call forth a life that's DRIPPING with pleasure. You’re not going back. This time you have a sisterhood, a support system and a plan to succeed. 


Your Retreat Leaders

We’re Tosh and Regine, creators of The Black Goddess Collective and together we're on a mission to help Black women unlock the power of pleasure.

We host retreats and courses that give you tools to heal blocks/triggers so you can live a life that’s DRIPPING with pleasure, joy, and freedom.

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Together we bring over 22 years of education and experience to The Collective. Tosh with her Masters degree in Higher Education Counseling, as well as certifications in Erotic Blueprint Sex & Intimacy Coaching, Accelerated Evolution Communication Coaching, yoga and sound healing. Regine holds a juris doctorate (JD) and a psychology degree. She’s  also earned coaching certifications in EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), Kemetic Yoga and Meditation.

From us you’ll learn ancient wisdom and holistic tools like breathwork, pleasure practices, yoga nidra, meditation, energy work, sound, and movement to uncover/resolve even the deepest issues. Our hope is that you become unapologetic about what you really want and live your best life from that truth. 



This retreat will allow you to learn:

✨ The Black Goddess Year-End Release Method

✨ Proven and practical tools to release chronic stress

✨ How to let go of the strong Black woman cycle and embrace new ways to express your soft, gentle feminine nature

✨Awaken your sacred sexuality and claim pleasure as your birthright

✨How to prioritize YOU first with no guilt

✨About the Chakra system and how to live in more flow, ease, and pleasure

Get the YOU time you’ve been needing all year long! Relax, breathe, exhale.

After this retreat, you’ll begin 2022 feeling refreshed and excited about your life and the year ahead.


THIS retreat is going to be a delicious journey…



✨ 4 days, 3 nights accommodations. No shared accommodations. 1- bedroom apt, 2 blocks from the beach with bathroom, kitchen & living room.

✨ Ground Transportation to and from Cancun Airport

✨ Chef-prepared meals: 3 Continental Breakfasts & 2 Dinners

✨ Welcome Ceremony & Dinner

✨ Daily sacred movement/yoga sessions

✨ Black Goddess Workshops

✨ New Year’s Eve Celebration (Wonderful Dinner & Special Ceremony)

✨ Evening Yoga Nidra Healing Sessions

✨ Closing Ceremony & White Party




Where do I sign up?  

***SOLD OUT - REGISTRATION CLOSED***  CLICK HERE to be taken to the registration page. Payment plans are available. From there, you can make your payment and you'll be all set!


What airport should I fly into? 

Cancun (CUN) International Airport. Ground transportation from Cancun airport to Puerto Morelos is included in your retreat package and will be finalized one week prior to arrival. 


What time does retreat start and end? 



The retreat begins on Thursday, December 30, 2021, at 5:00 PM. Check-in begins at 3:00 PM. Puerto Morelos can be a 45-minute drive from Cancun Airport and you should plan to arrive in Cancun (ideally) no later than 2:00 PM.



The retreat ends on Sunday, January 2, 2022, at 11:00 AM. Check-out is 12noon. Please add 3 hours before your flight departure. Puerto Morelos can be a 45-minute drive from Cancun Airport and you should plan to arrive at the airport two hours before your flight home.


Can I bring my mom, sister, bestie and share an apartment? 

Yes, you’re welcome to share a room (one queen bed) with someone you know. Email us at for pricing and details. 


What should I pack and wear? 

Casual, comfortable and relaxed beachwear (yoga pants, summer dress, flip flops)


What should I expect for the New Years celebration?

This will be a sacred, feminine journey! An opportunity to return and reconnect to yourself.  Prepare for a spiritual, zen and relaxing atmosphere. Save the heels and sequins for your birthday :-)


What are the COVID precautions?

There will be no shared accommodations. We only have 8 single spaces. Masks are required indoors. We’ll aim to conduct most sessions and activities outdoors (weather permitting) to allow for social distancing. 


How much money should I bring? 

You will need: 

++ $40 cash for Covid test; 

++ Daily cash for tips (10-15% gratuity); 

++ Money for meals not included in the package. Credit cards are accepted at most restaurants and stores. 

++ There is a $150 refundable deposit per apartment. You will receive the refund at check out. 

++ There are money exchanges at the airport and in downtown Puerto Morelos. You can go to for Mexican Peso rates. 


What’s NOT included in the retreat price?

- Air Travel

- Travel insurance

- Other non-included items would be spa treatments, excess baggage charges & alcoholic beverages, personal items, and souvenir shopping or excursions

- Tips & Gratuities

- Any other expense not listed in inclusions

- All deposits are non-refundable. We reserve the right to cancel the retreat if we do not meet the minimum number of participants and deposits will be refunded.

What’s your cancellation policy?


It is your responsibility to read and understand our cancellation policy before making a reservation.

Naturally, no one books with the intention of canceling or postponing their retreat, but unexpected things do happen, so travel cancellation insurance is strongly encouraged once a deposit is made.


Travel insurance is strongly suggested.  Please be sure that your insurance policy covers you for all relevant activities you will be engaging upon on your retreat & TRIP CANCELLATION. 

You can go to: or the insurance of your choice. Depending on the policy and conditions, travel cancellation insurance will pay for some or all cancellation fees.

With most agencies, insurance must be purchased within 14 days of making your reservation.


If you cancel your trip, Black Goddess Collective does not offer refunds for any reason.  All deposits are non-refundable and will not be returned. A portion of your payment may be used as credit for another retreat to be taken within one year of your original retreat date.   


If Black Goddess Collective must cancel a booked retreat date for any reason, you may transfer your full retreat payment to another retreat, or you may request a FULL refund of your payment to us, constituting a full settlement.

If we reschedule a retreat for a future date, your retreat payment will automatically be transferred to the new date. If you are unable to attend the new retreat, your payments will be refunded.  Depending on the reason for the reschedule, Black Goddess Collective has the discretion to return the initial deposit.

Black Goddess Collective is not responsible for your expenses incurred in preparation for any canceled retreat, such as airline tickets, loss of work, and/or other costs associated with preparing for your trip.

I have other questions. Who can I speak to? 

Feel free to email us at