My Story
Hi. I'm TOSH PATTERSON (she/her) and I'm a simplicity expert.

I'm a formerly burnt-out corporate executive who decided to break free from 24/7 hustle-busy mode, prioritize self-care, and reconnect with what mattered most in life.


For the past few years, I’ve actively been on a journey of less -- Less working. Less debt. Less clutter. Less junk food. Less time on my phone. Overall, just less consumption of society’s script.

In the past 3 years, I left a soul-crushing career, traded a big house for a smaller space, paid off ~$15k of debt, and replaced my income first with a remote job that allowed me to travel to several destinations all expenses paid, then to my current coaching business.

It’s not always easy to walk the path of LESS because it requires courage and intentionality, but living in alignment with my values/soul is so worth it.

Surprisingly, doing less has resulted in more. More time. More money. More freedom. More alignment. More peace of mind. More travel. More quiet. More sex! More coffee breaks. More baths. More cooking. More massages. More naps. More reading. More time doing things I love with the people I love.

I work with women who:

✨ who feel stressed out by all the physical and mental clutter in life

✨ who feel like they're living by someone else's rules

✨ who want to have more free time, reclaim their schedule, + reconnect to what matters most (by their standards, not society’s rules)

✨ who want to get more “me” time + prioritize self-care

✨ who feel burnout, overwhelm, or underwhelm + craving something deeper from life

✨ who want to break up with overwhelm

✨ who want to have more freedom + peace of mind

✨ who want to break the rules + opt-out of the status quo

Whatever your desire, I’m here to help you create it.


I’ve worked as a coach and counselor for 10+ years. I have over 15,000 hours of experience and a long track record of client success.

Plus I’ve been featured in places like The Dr. Oz Show, Oprah Magazine, as well as many local and national publications. Oh, and, I’ve downsized and decluttered my house, my career, and my life so I have LOTS of first-hand experience.

If you want results, I’m your girl.

I work with you to create changes that you can see, feel, and measure—like purging your home, scheduling self-care time and actually doing it, working less, traveling alone, taking a personal sabbatical, and establishing clear boundaries.



- Masters in Higher Education Counseling & Administration



- Certified Erotic Blueprint Sex & Intimacy Coach

- Accelerated Evolution Communication Coach

- Yoga Nidra for Stress Relief

- Sound Healing

- Bikram Hot Yoga

- Stress Reduction & Meditation in the Workplace

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Ready to ditch all the
physical and mental clutter in your life?